There isn’t One Right Way to Be Happy
There isn’t a set formula one should follow to find real and lasting happiness. There is no secret recipe. What works for one person may not work for another because finding true happiness is a personal journey.
To find your own happiness, you need to understand what you truly want from life. You need to stop repeating patterns in your life that do not serve you well. You have to remove things from your life that are keeping you from reaching your goals. This is why set formulas don’t work. You are a unique individual; therefore, your journey will be unique …and exciting and fun!
You are responsible for your own happiness. You are in charge of your life. While others may be part of your happiness, they are not in control of your happiness. Nobody is able to take control of how you feel unless you allow them to. Don’t let them!
Life is full of challenges and obstacles. There will be times when you don’t hold the reigns; where events will be out of your control. But even during the most difficult times, you always have control of your own feelings. You have the ability to find joy and light.
It’s true, when you’re going through something painful and overwhelming, the last thing you want to hear is someone telling you happiness is a choice. But by being able to find that spark, that light, and the one thing you can hold on to, you’ll see the light at the end of the tunnel.
Following that spark and knowing happiness is possible can make all the difference in the world when life gets hard.